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Aug 29, 20232 min read

"Unmasking the Shadows: Understanding Coercive Control and Its Subtle Signs"

Coercive control is a highly manipulative and damaging behavior often used by abusers to establish dominance and control over their...

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Aug 23, 20232 min read

"Behind Closed Doors: Understanding the Abusive Nature of Patriarchal Religious Systems”

Patriarchal religious systems can become abusive due to the combination of power imbalances, distorted interpretations of religious...

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Aug 22, 20233 min read

"Breaking the Mold: Unveiling Double Standards in Religious Patriarchal Communities”

The prevalence of double standards within religious patriarchal communities is a stark reminder of the complex gender dynamics that...

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Aug 16, 20232 min read

"Denial's Embrace: Holding Onto Innocence Amidst Allegations"

In the labyrinth of faith, where convictions and emotions intertwine, the propensity for followers to cling to a "not guilty narrative"...

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Aug 15, 20233 min read

"Unveiling the Shadows: Navigating Domestic Violence within Religious Communities"

Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in a relationship, involving the use of physical, emotional, psychological, or...

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Aug 11, 20233 min read

The Perilous Journey: Unraveling the Trauma of Departing Spiritually Abusive Organizations

Introduction The human pursuit of spirituality and belonging has led many to seek solace and enlightenment within various religious or...

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About Me

Hi, I'm Rebecca!

My name is Rebecca. I’m an ex-Mennonite, cult-surviving, rising like a phoenix, never gonna be known as the woman who kept her mouth shut, warrior of a woman who is far from perfect, trying her hardest to make a difference, be the best wife, mom, friend, and advocate that I can be.

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